Friday, July 31, 2009

Meet Jacob

To answer some of your questions Jake (yes, that’s right he has a name – Jacob, Jake for short) is almost 8 months old (edited to add: ok so being a new mommy I didn't add right - he will actually be 8 months old next week). He weighs about 17 pounds and is a little over 26 inches long. He’s just starting to get his 2 front bottom teeth and has a really bad haircut (which you might have noticed from the pictures - but hopefully it will grow out fast).

We had another great day today. I finally got Jake to start talking to me. He’s been pretty quiet up until now but he let loose today, laughing, babbling and even a tiny bit of crying (he got pretty tired towards the end). I’m very bummed that I won’t get to see him again until Monday (they don’t let you visit the baby house in Shymkent on the weekends). And now more of what you really want – pictures!




Edited to add: we brought some clothes today to see what size Jake wears. I know he looks big in the pictures but when we held up the 9 month outfit it looked HUGE. Ruth tried to put the pants part of the outfit on him but he wanted nothing to do with it. I can't say that I blame him because when it's that hot who wants to put more on?

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Finally Some Pictures

You asked for it you got it. Here is my little Kaz cutie. It's REALLY hot here (upper 90s/low 100s) so yes I look hot and sweaty.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Bonding

Sorry for the lack of updates. It’s taken us a little while to get our bearings in Shymkent and we’ve had some technical challenges but I think we’re close to getting it all worked out.

We got here Monday morning and dropped our stuff off at the apartment, changed and then we were off to the Ministry of Education. After answering some questions we got the proper form and were on to the Baby House. There I met a beautiful little boy. He has brown hair and big brown eyes. He has a Russian name that I have a hard time pronouncing but that means ‘gift from God’ or ‘divine gift.’ I’m still deciding on names so for now he’s going by the niblet. The Baby House Director said she thought he looked like me. We only got to spend 10-15 minutes with the baby and then we headed back to the apartment to try to catch up on our sleep.

Tuesday afternoon we were back to the Baby House for our first day of bonding with the niblet. He is a really active little guy – his little belly crawl is just the cutest thing. He loves the crab rattle I brought and really enjoyed playing with the stacking cups. He’s a really easy going baby, loves to look around at everything and is not fussy at all.

We went back Wednesday for our second day of bonding. It was really hot today so we decided to take a little walk outside. I’m not sure whether or not the niblet has actually been outside before but he was looking around at everything trying to take it all in.

As soon as we've figured out the technical stuff I'll post some pictures and hopefully some video so you can see him in action.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Greetings from Kazakhstan

This is Abby’s sister and travel companion Ruth. Since Abby is really busy right now I thought you might enjoy some color commentary on our journey so far.

We were very lucky in our travels to Kazakhstan it appears that if possible the Canadian Airline industry is in worse shape then the US airlines. With the help a great travel agent in Minnesota who specializes in handling adoption travel (referred to me by a friend whose husband is on the board of a local adoption group) we scored business class tickets for only a very small amount about the going coach rate. The catch was we had to meet in Toronto. This turned out to be a great thing as we were able to travel most of the way together at no extra expense. The trip is long but not terrible particularly when you are really excited.

We arrived in Almaty at midnight on Saturday. We were a little worried that we would not know where to go or how to handle passport control. It was easier then we thought. You needed to fill out a migration card in Russian (tip to traveling families get the card and get in line). We were the last people through the line. We picked up our baggage and walked out the door. (Another note to travelers the passport control people are VERY serious and will not strike up a conversation with you- I am from the midwest so I could not help myself). We were met at the airport by our translator Kate and our driver Lenny and taken to our hotel.

We ended up and spending two days in Almaty which was fun for me because I will not be coming with Abby on her return trip so this was my one chance. Our hotel was well located and we overlooked the opera house and had a great view of the mountains. It was not as “Americanized” as I am used to but I am the sister whose idea of camping is the green on the Holiday Inn sign. We did get to see a little of the City including going up into the mountains and a stop at the central museum – very interesting but a little hard to follow as only one room had any English on the signs.

Off to Shymkent at 7:40 AM on Monday – We arrived early Monday morning from Almaty. The Air Astana plane was surprisingly nice. On a one hour flight we got not only a meal service but candy and a sample of hand cream - A little different from Northwest. The pilot was clearly American – when he came on he made his flight announcement in English with a distinct Midwestern accent – maybe it was a little more like Northwest then I thought.

We were taken to our new home for the next couple of weeks by the Shymkent Coordinator Balzhan. The apartment is nice. It has clearly just been renovated and was designed with Americans in mind. We do have one small window air conditioning unit but it is in the kitchen at the opposite end of the house from the bedrooms. I expect I at least will be sleeping in the family room where we can at least feel the air. As normal as the apartment seems when you walk out the door you definitely tell you are not in the U.S. If you go one block you are in the heart of the city and near to the grocery store and the “Mega” [yes that is the name]. It is a big mall with Kaz’s version of a Super Target. I tried to take pictures and they made me erase them or they would take my camera away. We are now loaded up on supplies and ready to tackle this adventure.

A few random thoughts:

Biggest Culture Shock – Not very many people speak English. (Sorry to sound like an ugly American) I have traveled in Europe and India and Turkey and found more English speakers – but I was in business or tourist locations.

Best Thing – The coordinators and translators from the adoption agency are really nice and very helpful.

Things I miss the most – 1. My family of course! 2. Diet Coke 3. Hot water in the shower – That’s a story you have to ask me to tell you in person and 4. The internet access here is not looking great at this moment. We may or may not have dial up at the house.

Funnest thing we have done – Enjoyed this trip together with great attitudes. Our motto is “It’s not bad just different.”

Dumbest thing I have done – I stepped in a hole in Almaty and did a major face plant. I scrapped my knees and hands, bruised my shoulder and definitely bruised my ego. I told Abby it was good we had travel insurance and she said she was glad not to have to med-evac me out on day two of the trip.

IT IS HOT HERE!! I had been told but being from Minnesota I was not prepared. For our Minnesota friends it is as hot here in the summer as it is cold in Minnesota in the winter.

Abby will post the good detail later (i.e., all the stuff about the baby).

Ruth

Just a quick note from Abby. Sorry about the lack of updates. We’ve had a few technical issues with getting to the internet. We haven’t been able to get it hooked up at the apartment yet so we’ve been going to cafes with wifi. The problem is my computer’s battery isn’t great so I can only use it for very short periods of time. Hopefully we’ll get the internet hooked up soon so I can give you more exciting info.

Sunday, July 26, 2009

More From Almaty

Hi again from Almaty. I was too brain dead to post much yesterday since we were pretty jet lagged. All we did yesterday was find the grocery store, exchange some money and then walk around the city a little bit. We passed a couple of pretty parks, one of which we’ve dubbed the “wedding park.” We saw four couples having their wedding pictures taken in that park. We had to weave and dodge to stay out of photos.

This morning we took a trip up to the mountains outside of Almaty. It was really beautiful. Our translator, Kate, told us that they are doing a lot of construction in anticipation of a sporting event (similar to the Olympics but on a smaller scale only for Asia) in 2011. We then visited the Central State Museum and then spent some time at the mall (hey we were happy to find a place with air conditioning) - it’s VERY hot here.

We are leaving for Shymkent early in the morning and will visit the baby house some time during the day.

Here are a few pictures of the things we’ve seen.

A fountain at one of the parks:

One of the brides:

My sister and I in the mountains:

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Almaty

We arrived in Almaty late last night/early this morning. We're still trying to adjust to the time change. We are spending the day exploring but mostly taking it easy.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

O Canada

Greetings from the Toronto airport! Yes, it's finally happening. I'm on my way. Of course there's still a long way to but it's a good start.